FAQ


AGE GROUP
We are open to all over 21, But I would say the main group is between 30 and 55.
We do have younger and older members. But the majority is in that age group.
DO WE HAVE TO BECOME MEMBERS TO ATTEND?
No, not the first time, You will come at a member's  rate . If you feel you would like to continue coming, we will then ask for a membership. Or charge another 10.00 a party till you become a member.
WE ARE NEW, AND JUST CURIOUS.
Great!! no pressure, you go at your own pace, many people attend just to socialize.
You do what YOU want, not what others want. We are not a SEX club, We are a SOCIAL  club.  We are not structured, so you do not have to get involved unless you want to.
I AM INTERESTED, HOW DO I BRING IT UP TO MY PARTNER?
Communicate, talk about fantasies, ask them what theirs are. Everyone has fantasies!! As a couple it is something that you both must want to do.  If you want to do this because there is something missing in your relationship, DON"T.. If you want to swing to add to an already fantastic union!! By all means DO!!
I AM NOT SURE I WILL FIT IN:
AGE/SHAPE/SIZE/SEXUAL PREFERENCE/RACE
We are open to all. How open minded are you?? There is no discrimination here.
Like I said before, most of the people involved are over 30, We females have had babies, work full time jobs, have kids at home, do not have time to run to the gym every day.
I am not saying there aren't any hardbodies, but definetely not the majority.
There are many bi-females that join us, possibly a few bi males, I don't know for sure. I do not open a closed door to find out  lol. (Unless I feel something is not right), what you do in a closed room is your business)
We have all races here, if you are racist this is no place for you!!
WHAT DO I WEAR?
We are very casual here, NO SUITS ALLOWED!!!  You can dress in jeans, sexy attire, what ever, it doesn't hurt to bring a robe, lingerie for later in the evening.
SAFE SEX
We furnish condoms. But it is up to you and your own discretion, whether you use them or not. The one that wants to use protection has last say.. In 6 years we have not had any STD's  and hope to continue with a perfect record.
SINGLE VERSUS COUPLES
We try to keep it an an even ratio,  1 single male for 2 couples, 1 single male for every single female.  Once in awhile it may not work, but most of the time it does, just depends on who cancells at the last minute, or does not show up. That we cannot do anything about!! We try our best.
FACILITY
Right now we have the parties in our house, we are on a farmstead in a private rural area, no frills, just good people and good times!! Plans are to build a club house, that will open to members 24/7 in the future.