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Courage is the greatest of all the virtues. Because if you haven't courage, you may not have an opportunity to use any of the others
--Samuel Johnson



THEY SAID

Gena Rowlands on the Cassavetes Era: "It was a romantic time. You could hardly send us home from work, then we'd get home and, even though we were exhausted, we'd still be talking all night, trying not to talk about it, trying to be balanced with the rest of our life. But we had such extraordinary happiness in each day," she adds smiling, "which isn't to say they were peaceable days." And on the difficulties in founding money: "The first time I mortgaged my house, I was scared," she admits. "But then I'd think, `Oh, damn, go for it.' There wasn't room for us within the system. Once we decided to make this break and to concentrate everything on it, it was hard financially . . . but hard in a good way, not a terrible way." And on the influence of their movies: "Influential is such a hoity-toity word," she says graciously. "But I think there's kind of a longing, a yearning, for emotion in young people. They've been through a long period when emotions were not dealt with in film. And John's films really are about love . . . how you find it, how in God's name you keep it, how you deal with it no matter when you lose it - whether by divorce or betrayal, indifference or death. He goes so deeply into how people can love and hate each other at the same time."

''You can never be sure,'' New York Times critic Vincent Canby wrote of Cassavetes, ''whether what you're seeing is artful or artless.'

Gena on shooting Gloria: "John and I were just back from Italy, and we'd eaten every single pasta in sight. I can't tell you what a genius Ungaro was the day we tried that dress on."

"One of our writers was saying to me the other day, he didn't think anyone's name came up more often than John Cassavetes with filmmakers from all over the world," says Mr. Jameson, editor of Film Comment

"Well, there's no denying I found him physically attractive, but I suspect the real attraction was his passion for everything, not necessarily for movies. We were theater students when we met, and I always thought of our future in terms of a theatrical couple, like Lunt and Fontanne. - Gena on John

Roger Ebert on John Cassavetes: "John Cassavetes is one of the few modern directors whose shots, scenes, dialogue and characters all instantly identify their creator; watch even a few seconds of a Cassavetes film, and you know whose it is, as certainly as with Hitchcock or Fellini. They are films with a great dread of silence; the characters talk, fight, joke, sing, confess, accuse. They need love desperately, and are bad at giving it and worse at receiving it, but God how they try." And again: "One of the things we can ask of an artist is that he leave some record of how it was for him, how he saw things, how he coped. Movies are such a collaborative medium that we rarely get the sense of one person, but Cassavetes at least got it down to two: himself and Rowlands. The key to his work is to realize that it is always Rowlands, not the male lead, who is playing the Cassavetes role.

Gena on the blurring line between art & life: "We were so obsessed," the actress remembers. "Our children got accustomed to coming out to get ready for school and falling over cables and bumping into cameras and a houseful of people." To shield the kids from the coarse tone of their films, the couple tried to avoid discussing work around the dinner table. "We said, 'We're going to let it just drop so that we don't bring these children up to be total neurotics,'" Rowlands laughs. "We'd go to bed. And then about 3 o'clock, I'd say, 'Are you awake?' He'd say, 'Yeah.' I'd say, 'What do you think about the scene where...' And then we would go off again, talking and talking."

Ben Gazzara on John: "I once saw him with his eyes bleeding, he was so tired," Gazzara marvels. "Bleeding. From exhaustion. Broken capillaries. From no sleep."

"He was a fighter about everything," says Elaine Kagan (secretary). "Including death."

Saymour Cassel on his collaboration with John: "You could give me millions of dollars, and I'd say, 'Keep it, because what we did with those films is worth more to me than any amount of money."

Michael Ventura (writer and director of a Cassavetes documentary called I'm Almost Not Crazy: John Cassavetes: The Man and His Work) on Love Streams dailies: "When the lights came up, John looked at me with that unrelenting look he had. That look. It was fierce, and it was funny - as though a tough joke had been told, and the joke was on him. It was full of pain, yet full of eagerness. It was the look of a man doing what he was born to do, a man who would settle for nothing less. It was all those things, and it was something more: It was humble. For all his arrogance, his pride, his rages, John Cassavetes was a sweet and humble man, a man who would spend hours - and on a shooting day! - listening to the opinions and stories of grips, script girls, bit players, and the people who dished out the food, because human beings interested John. He was humble before our struggle to live and to make some sense of our lives. This shines in every film he made."

Al Ruban on John: "John was so in love with life that he was almost intoxicated. [... ] But he had bad habits, he was always on the phone and always with a cigarette and, even though I have never seen him drunk, when he was talking with someone he did it with a glass in hand. [...] And he loved to talk, debate, argue. He was always on the opposite side. His true drug was conversation"

"John made you feel important, and he treated everyone the same, including Gena," says Seymour Cassel.

"John wrote the parts and told you very little after that," Rowlands says. "He'd say, `It's your part, you own this person. Don't ask me how to play it because you know this person better than anybody else.'

Gena on John and marriage: "I met my husband when we were students, and we were married thirty years. And we were so busy doing the things that we were trying to do, that we didn't think about what made it work, or not work." And again: "I think now that I look back on it, I think that we were both so very obsessed about wanting the same thing. And then we just had a natural, um, it was just a magnetic happening between us at the beginning. So I think that is it. And we weren't separated a great deal. You know how the business thing is pretty hard on marriages. So..."