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MONDAY 24th June 2002
11:30AM

Another rotten day.. shoot life is full of them!!

Chantal left today!!
She can't handle my mother :-(

To tell the truth... everything was OK until the cat arrived on the scene... since then it's been all downhill!!
My mother has picked at every little thing and made a mountain out of it. I tried to tell her to zip her lips... or at least if something IS bothering her that much at least mention it pleasantly, first... after all the girl is not a mind reader!! It was more important to me that Jason is happy and has a goal in life now

The fact that Jason is truly happy for the FIRST time in his life made no difference. She just can't help herself, she's born to nag. Jason and I have learned to 'shut off' and only absorb that which IS important.. Unfortunately Chantal couldn't do that.
I don't know what it is about my Mum... she's never happy unless she's got something to complain about.. she makes herself miserable and everyone around her. I love her BUT she makes it hard sometimes.

The girl even got herself a job..

Jason has just finished a demo promotional CD for a big company and they are thrilled with his work. Things are starting to fall into place for him and my mother has to go and spoil things.

 

3:30PM

Spoke with Jason a short while ago.. all is OK. He's taken it like a man *S* Lord... I can remember the days when he'd be moping around if this had happened. Instead... he came home and told Mum that he knows what she's like... we're used to her mood swings but that it's OK... he wouldn't have her any other way.... (I would !!!!!)

I couldn't believe I was overhearing this... he really has grown up!

Chantal is staying with one of his friends and is looking for a place to stay... not a backpacker's hostel. She's not angry... she was already thinking about moving out anyway...

I said she was nice!
She's good for Jason and that's all that matters to me.
So we'll just have to wait and see what happens from here on in.
I just hope she comes and takes her cat....
I was preparing a roast for dinner tonight... I guess it could smell the meat... it made a dirty dive, dug it's claws in and tried to climb up my slacks!!!!!!!!!!!!! I screamed... it damned well hurt!

It's determined to make a meal out of the bird, rat or mouse...
no amount of squirting it with water will make it stay away from the cages!

On to other things... Jared is on holiday AGAIN... 3 weeks this time (a week longer than any other school.) I worked out that for the first half of this year, even though they have 20 calendar weeks they are supposed to be at school learning the 3 R's... they have actually had ONLY 11 weeks and 3 days of schoolwork... neither wonder the teachers can't cover everything in the curriculum!

I deducted all the public holidays, pupil free days (when teachers have meetings), 5 hours of sport a week, 3 days away at camp, the extra days they have for holidays over every other school in the area and ended up with the 11 weeks and 3 days. If they run true to form... even without any public holidays in the second half of the year... they'll be at school (being educated in the BASICS) for a total of approximately 26 weeks for the whole year!!

I arrived at this for the second half of the year by deducting the pupil free days, sports carnivals, rehearsal for school concert, 4 hours a week of UNNECESSARY sport and the fact that they get an extra weeks holidays at Christmas (they start a week earlier than everyone else) and I'm sure they'll have extra time in the September holidays.

So, is it any wonder I'm furious with their school system? They have 6 months at school learning and 6 months of the year doing anything but.!!

The Lutherans are building a new school in the area. The Principal is being appointed early in July... I'm on the list for an appointment. The school will be operational for the first week of the new school year in 2003. Jared is quite resigned to the fact that he'll be leaving the College.

Jared was supposed to go into hospital during the Easter holidays but he chickened out at the last minute. If the doctor hadn't mentioned the possibility of sticking a tube down his throat if he didn't drink all the stuff he was supposed to take to empty his bowels, all would have been OK.

BUT that doesn't matter now. A friend is giving me the phone number of a gentleman who is an expert on the Body's Biochemistry. He cured her 10 year old daughter of migraine headaches which she's had EVERY DAY for 3 years. Another woman was diagnosed with cancer 9 years ago and was given 6 months to live... she's still alive! A third lady, has a son who was grossly obese and had juvenile diabetes... after a visit to this gentleman he's now average size and playing football and tennis for the first time in his 10 year old life.

He's a 5 hour drive from here, but I don't care. I'm hoping he can do something for my feet and hands and for Jared's bowels. You have no idea how much I'm praying that he'll be able to alleviate my pain. I didn't expect this crap to happen to me at 55... maybe in my 70's.. but NOT AT 55!

I haven't been in the mood for updating web sites, but have been fiddling with creating PSP TUBES. Joined a group and they seemed happy with what I was sending in so... I created a NEW Site....
like I really need another site to maintain <GRIN>.

Anyway if you're interested in checking it out... and especially if you have any use for TUBES... here's the URL..

http://jemimaoz.topcities.com/jemimaoz/index.htm

I've also put together some photo pages
for those of you who are interested.
These were taken over the last month or so and
can be found here...

May to June 2002 Photos


Sunday 30 June 2002

Well it's official... half the year is gone! Shoot.. it went so fast I hardly noticed! In the same flash of time it will be Christmas!! That's a scary thought.

Jared's just finished the 1st week of his 3 week holiday. He spent 3 days at school!!!! They have activities going on for the kids for the entire 3 weeks. He had a great time. They spent one day in the bush around the school 'discovering' things, made a campfire and cooked Damper (Aussie Bread). Another day they were taken to the beach and on the 3rd day they went to a place called Maze Mania... I'm still waiting to hear exactly what that is *S*

He was up at 5am this morning and he, his dad and Chantal drove down to the Gold Coast (4 hours) to go to Dreamworld. Jason told me when he got home that he was stunned at the cost of entry! You can tell who usually pays to get into these theme parks... can't you *S*

Now to me again... apparently this gentleman in Kingaroy (the Bio Chemist) doesn't need me to appear in person... all I have to do is list my symptoms and send a photo (?) So, that letter is ready to mail tomorrow.. What a NICE man he was to talk to! He couldn't figure out why I was having all these problems considering I was so "young". He thought I was about 25!!!!! I told you he was nice!!! Seems I don't sound like an "old battleaxe" on the phone, I have a very young voice<GRIN> Wish I still had the body I had when I was 25! He has a wonderful sense of humour!! I'm also sending Jared's details, I hope and pray he can do something.

My ankle has been really bad this weekend. It feels like I have a tight, lead bracelet on it... you know the kind... the ones attached to the ball and chains prisoners used to wear.

Mum's been in a better mood. Of course there's been no-one here to bitch about :-) EXCEPT the cat... and I'M ready to KILL IT!!!!
It scared the bejesus out of the bird! I thought the bird was going to have a heart attack! I had the cage covered... next thing I hear wild flapping and the damned cat was on top of the cage with the cover off!! I told Jason about it when he got home... his response... "I'll put a hook in the ceiling for you to hang up the cage" My response.... "GET RID OF THE CAT!!"
Lord we'd need to have hooks up for the Rat and the mouse too... can't you just imagine!!

Just have to tell you what a 'wonderful' teacher Jared has this year, before I upload this page....
At the end of the 2nd last week of school (the Thursday, to be exact) Jared and his best buddy Nicholas were ferreting around in the bush near the classrooms at lunchtime and found a Centipede.
They put it in his drink bottle and put it in his school bag before returning to class.
"Big Deal" you say... well I'd agree...
BUT
there's a little bitch in his class who couldn't wait to tell!!
(I might add here... I watched her through the class window one afternoon, sitting at her desk, picking her nose AND EATING IT!! UGH!!! Delightful child!!)
Anyway.... she told Jared's teacher that he had a centipede in his bag. Now, instead of ignoring the little bitch (or at least, like his 2nd grade teacher would have done... got him to get the centipede and tell the class all about it) she told him to go and get it out of his bag, took the bottle from him an kept it on her desk. He had to leave in the afternoon without it. (She let it go)

YES.... I sent a note to school the next day telling her to phone me THAT DAY! I tore strips off her and said that if she paid more attention to his education it would be more to the point than listening to clipes (tattletales)!!! She told me centipedes were dangerous! I told her to "...get a life!!" Centipedes are NOT dangerous to humans, only their prey. If they're big enough they can give a nasty bite, but it's not lethal. I told her if she had taken the time to ask Jared about it he would have told her that!! He has more books at home on insects and animals than the school library!! AND HE READS THEM! Maybe she should get one on insects and read up on them! Then she might know what she's talking about!

I was furious with her and when I "lose it" I screech... she had 20 minutes of my screeching *S* I told her if she ever did that to Jared again I'd come down on her like a ton of bricks. Perhaps she'd rather Jared was at "a loose end" at lunch time and getting into trouble instead????

On the following Monday I sent in an insect book of Jared's with a highlighted section on the fact that centipedes are not dangerous to humans. Her reaction according to Jared... "Oh!"
Stupid woman!!

Now, you're probably thinking I'm crazy... huh???
Well, I'm not *S*
I just hate people getting stuck into Jared for no proper reason.

O.K. I'll finish now...

I hope all my American friends have a great Independence Day holiday... love y'all !!
Hope you love this 'crackpot' too... <GRIN>

Hugs till next time.

 

"The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost"

G. K. Chesterton. 

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