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COUPLES
Males and Females are different, therefore their atavistic needs are different.
Couples, before they live together, must make sure each understands and accepts the other’s needs as Romantic Love, a regression to infantile merging (0--1 year) and omnipotence (1—2 years), rarely lasts longer than 18 months.
Unless about to give birth or some such , a woman is physically always ready for sexual intercourse; a man instead will always need a stimulus to induce erection.
Menopause is a relief to most females; not having to worry about becoming pregnant, monthly pains and mess. Andropause is a tragedy for most males as they feel bereaved.
Conformity arranges most marriages in the world, only an individual chooses for himself or herself. Conformity means, above all, that the Male plays the dominating part and the Female submits willingly in the confined space of their home . The Male goes out to earn the family-bread, and the Female stays at home (with the children) to provide comfort for him when he returns home tired to recount his successes or failures.
Males compete for symbols like high rank in a hierarchy, which will give them money, property, and females who are attracted to the prize not to the winner.
Males are rational putting everything into oblong boxes with a label. Females are closer to Nature instinctively recognising the imperativeness of life.
Most Males are more romantic than most Females. Nearly all the poems of love are written to or about women by men. Women’s Liberation has swept away all illusion, leaving nothing in its place.
Females ( and their children) recognise their needs, and lacking Male protection should be able to turn to the International Laws of Society to help them.
Most men prefer men’s company , and so do most women!
