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1a-sofla-bdsm [English] [For People Over 21]
South Florida BDSM open discussion forum and Meeting Place. This is open to Male Dominants and female submissives. BBW's also very welcome This is one of few un-censored forums where everyone is FREE to say as they feel in any manner that they wish. The only rule is that we agree to disagree.

1disciplinepersonals [English] [For People Over 21]
This forum is dedicated to singles seeking to find a partner who shares their interest in and dedication to Domestic Discipline between consenting adults. This is not BDSM, but rather a lifestyle that centers around strong leadership in the family and the appropriate use of loving corporal punishment as a means of behavioral modification. You are invited to post personal information concerning your identity, your interest and experience with Domestic Discipline, as well as your requirements for a suitable companion. Please use discretion when posting or replying to any personals. This list and its moderator assume no responsibility beyond providing this venue.
For more information, http://www.freeyellow.com/members2/domesticdiscipline/
 
 

1domesticdiscipline [English] [For People Over 21]
This mailing list is dedicated to those who practice genuine, non-erotic Domestic Discipline as an essential part of their loving, long term, committed relationship. This is NOT BDSM. It is, rather, physical correction from one who truly cares.
For more information, http://www.freeyellow.com/members2/domesticdiscipline/
 
 

Akldbdsm [English] [For People Over 17]
#AUCKLAND|BDSM The list will serve as a contact point for people within the greater Auckland area interested in bdsm and it's many facets. Predominantly for, but not restricted to Aucklanders or New Zealanders.
For more information, http://www.geocities.com/southbeach/boardwalk/7001/akldmunch.html
 
 

Baltimore-bdsm [English] [For People Over 21] [moderated]
This list is for people of all sexes, races, and genders to meet, exchange ideas, interest, and experience, start online or real life relationships involving BDSM in the Baltimore area. Absolutely NO flaming or personal attacks allowed.
 
 

Bastinado [English] [For People Over 17]
This list deals with the topic of punishment and discipline applied to the soles of the feet. (Bastinado = caning of the soles of the feet.) This "fetish" is easiest to understand as a combination of the spanking, BDSM and foot fetishes. "Foot discipline" is another term. It is of course also a well known ancient method of punishment and torture mostly practised in Asian countries. Though, it can be very cruel painful, it can of course be applied to any level of intensity. In fact it is a very sensual form of discipline. Consensuality in the usual BDSM sense is assumed when put in practice. Stories, historical information, personal experiences and technique are welcome topics. (Please, avoid tickling. Not because it is wrong in any sense, but because it forms a much larger field of interest in itself, and is already covered elswhere.)
For more information, mailto:sldscpl@hotmail.com
 
 

Bdsm [English] [For People Over 21]
This is a list for the purpose of free exchange of ideas regarding Bondage, Discipline, and Sadomasochism. Please visit the BDSM dicussion list web site in They Abyss.
For more information, http://anam.fsn.net

Bdsm-hamburg [German] [For People Over 17] [restricted]
This list is designed to keep its members updated on the regular meetings of the "Hamburger #BDSM.de Stammtisch" and other bdsm-related events in / around Hamburg.
For more information, http://home.pages.de/~bdsm.hh

BsdmUK [English] [For People Over 17]
This is a meeting point for all female slaves and slavers based in the U.K. If you have a hankering for bondage and humiliation and what to meet the master/mistress (or slave) of your dreams and are usually based in the United Kingdom, this is the place for you!

Bdsm-singles [English] [For People Over 21] [moderated] [restricted]
A discussion list for singles that share in the BDSM D/S Lifestyle.

Bdsm101 [English] [For People Over 21]
A resource for all adults interested in the BDSM lifestyle. No flaming allowed. All opinions welcome.
For more information, mailto:danicajoelle@mindspring.com

Bdsmnewmexico [English] [For People Over 21] [moderated] [restricted]
A mailing list for discussion of BDSM related topics. No trolling please. Also the mailing list for the IRC Dalnet Channel bdsm_new_mexico.
For more information, mailto:moonvine@swpc.net
 

Bdsmoklahoma [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
This is a list to keep up with channel happenings and local scene information. Munch announcements, gatherings, or any kind of BDSM related discussion.
For more information, http://members.tripod.com/~Moonvine/ok.html

Bdsm_san_antonio [English] [For People Over 21] Similar lists
This list is designed to keep the BDSM, D/s, and related communities in San Antonio informed and in contact with each other.

Bdsmtoys [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
This list is solely for the discussion of bdsm toys, techniques and methods. Handcrafted toys, toymaking plans/pics and creative ideas are the general topics of discussion. Flames, commercial ads (other than cottage industry) and off topic posts will get you bumped off. The list is operated by a practicing 24/7 top. List is open to all who have constructive information on the topic. Creativity is welcome and encouraged. No distinction is made as to male or female top/bottom. All who enjoy bdsm play are encouraged to join the list: straight, gay, top bottom--all have something to contribute.
 
 

Bdsmwitches [English] [For People Over 21]
Come out of the broomcloset! This is a list for those who follow the way of the witch, and also live the D/s lifestyle. Share, explore and gain insight into the true meaning of sex magick! Flamers..beware! Witches do not deal well with flames...and it will not be tolerated here! Trolling is not permitted, we also know what do to with trolls *wicked grin* Over 21 please
For more information, mailto:witchdoll@hotmail.com, JntleOne@aol.com
 
 

Bdsm_personals [English] [For People Over 17] [moderated]
This list is for BDSM Pansexual Personal Advertisements. We have over 500 members, and grow everyday. They can be ISO ads, seeking community, whatever you like -- within a few open guidelines, which will be provided to you upon subscription. You must be over 18 to subscribe.
For more information, mailto:hogarth@hotmail.com
 
 

Bdsm_san_antonio [English] [For People Over 21]
This list is designed to keep the BDSM, D/s, and related communities in San Antonio informed and in contact with each other.
 
 

Bdsm_uk_switches [English] [For People Over 21]
This is a forum for people who are BDSM orientated (into bondage, SM, power play etc.) and can switch between the dom & sub roles. The group is aimed at people living in England, Scotland, and Wales but pervs from farther afield are very much welcome . The purpose of the group is to allow it members to meet people on-line and exchange ideas and gossip about their own particular variation on the BDSM kink. Please observe the usual codes of tolerance, politeness, no flaming etc.
For more information, mailto:domsub_uk@hotmail.com
 
 

Beyondeden [English] [For People Over 21]
This is a BDSM list for people in the Shreveport LA area... anyone intrested in chat, knowledge and getting to know other of like minds in the area... Please sign up for the list!
 
 

Bigfolksbdsm [English] [For People Over 17]
This list is designed as a place for discussion of BDSM life with an emphasis on Big folks (BBWs, BHMs, fat people, whatever term works for you) and those who respect, admire, and covet them. Open-mindedness and tolerance and other adult behaviors are expected. Please stay on the topic of BDSM (fiction and poetry are allowable, but it must be labelled as such for those who don't wish to read it.) Adults (emotionally and, of course, chronologically) interested in BDSM are invited to join the discussion.
 
 

Bridges [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
A discussion mail list for people in a BDSM LDR relationship

Crop [English] [For People Over 21]
CROP- Carolina Ropes of Pleasure. Consenting Adults over the age of 21 only. For people in Wilmington ,NC and surrounding communities. BDSM mailing list- for serious people interested in the lifestyle. Safe, Sane and Consensual is the only way.

Darkcastle [English] [For People Over 21] [announce]
DarkCastle is an announcement list for regular visitors to The Dark Castle, a website that features the erotic, fetish, bdsm, bondage, hentai/manga/anime art of Bob King. Contents will be short announcements of my latest artwork, a few juicy links if I've run across anything nifty and possibly an artistic treat.
For more information, mailto:firewheel@geocities.com

Detroit-bdsm [English] [For People Over 21]
A discussion list and information clearing house for BDSM in Detroit, MI. This list provides information on munches, parties, picnics and bars to go to. It's also a resource to link friends both new and old together for involving themselves in the BDSM lifestyle in SE Michigan.

Dominance_submiss_fl [English] [For People Over 17] [moderated] [restricted]
This list is a sub list to Dominance_submission: For those in Florida who belong to Dominance_submission this is one of the main list SIGS for statewide specific issues and information.
For more information, http://www.darkangel.com/listserve.html

Dominance_submis_atl [English] [For People Over 17] [moderated] [restricted]
A sub list to the main list group Dominance_submission specifically for the Atlanta area issues announcements and traffic not pertinent to the main low volume list. Subscribers to this list will automatically be subscribed to the main list.
For more information, http://www.darkangel.com/listserve.html
 

Domf [English] [For People Over 21] [moderated] [restricted]
This is a supportive mail list for those who prefer women on top. We discuss female supremacy, erotic BDSM and related femdom issues.
For more information, http://www.cabo-one.com/lalaura
 

Dom_sub [English] [For People Over 21]
This is an open forum for those who have an interest in or are living the lifestyle of BDSM. (bondage and discipline, Domination and submission, sadism and masochism or sadomasochism) All sexual preferences are welcome here, provided you are at least honestly curious or active in BDSM. This list has been known to generate a high volume of mail at times. You must be at least 18 years of age to subscribe to this list, by subscribing you certify that you are at least 18 years of age.
For more information, http://www.mindspring.com/~ravenshad/LNR.htm
 

Dom-singles [English] [For People Over 21] [moderated] [restricted]
BDSM mail list for dominants that are single.
 
 

Dominance_submission [English] [For People Over 17] [moderated] [restricted]
Serving those exploring the Domination & submission (D/s) , BDSM, and Dom/sub SWINGER Lifestyles. Although Dominance_submission is Male DOM / sub female oriented,ALL are welcome to join, discuss and learn. This list also aims at providing a safe forum for people wanting to cross over from virtual (cyber) relationships (VT) to real life/time relationships (RT). This list is moderated by real life Dominants, submissives & Swingers who wish to create an informative and nurturing environment for the beginner and veteran alike. For those who seek to safely enter the world of BDSM or Swing BDSM this low to moderate volume list with rules of etiquette is the place to start. PLEASE NOTE: this list has two sub lists http://www.onelist.com/subscribe.cgi/dominance_submiss_fl (Florida) & http://www.onelist.com/subscribe.cgi/dominance_submis_ATL (Atlanta) for specific geographic issues. Subscription to a sub list will auto subscribe you to the main list as well.
For more information, http://www.darkangel.com/listserve.html

Dominance-submission [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
This is a list for the discussion of the D/s lifestyle and things incorporated with that life style. It is for various individuals to have a place to come and discuss matters at hand. To learn from one another and grow in that knowledge. It is hoped that if you join this list you will actively participate and not just lurk.

Dominion [English] [For People Over 21]
This list is made up of Dominants and submissives involved in D/s, BDSM, SM, BD, and any other combination that you can think of! It is not limited to Male Dominants and female submissives. Anyone is welcome, as long as you are 21 years of age. If you are open-minded, you are welcome to join and participate, no matter what your experience level is. We try to stick on topic. Join us to talk about Dominance and submission, bondage, sadomasochism, discipline. No pictures are traded or trolling allowed, just a discussion group made up of over 200 people who exchange their thoughts on BDSM, with experience levels ranging from beginners to the very experienced.
For more information, http://www.ourdominion.com
 
 

Domsub [English] [For People Over 17] [restricted]
Thanks for subscribing. This list is for the members of the BDSM community who wish to talk with and learn about the lifestyle. This list will be moderated, losely by myself and Labyrinth. We will not impose rules upon what is on and off topic, but will stop spamming, as well as arguements.
 
 

Domsub_los_angeles [English] [For People Over 21]
Welcome to domsub_los_angeles. This list is a discussion list for people in the BDSM lifestyle that are in the greater Los Angeles area. You must be *21* or older to part of this list! Dominants and submissives are encouraged to participate in this discussion, freely, and without hassle. There will be no flamming here what-so-ever. This list is for those people in the Los Angeles area that wish to talk, chat, meet, discuss, listen, etc.. Please feel free to post and talk about whatever your heart desires, as long it does not flame another person. The main reason for this list, is because I feel there are a number of people in the Los Angeles area that are part of the BDSM lifestyle, and don't have a list of their own, and this is for them. Please enjoy, and if you need further information, then please feel free to email me at the address below. Thank you..
For more information, mailto:lordstyle@earthlink.net

Dspe [English] [For People Over 21]
This is the D/s Power Exchamge "LIST". If you are interested in D/s Power Exchange in any & all of its varied forms... from novice to experiemced both DOMINANT & submissive. This list is for the Free Exchange of interest, ideas and experiences and will not be moderated or censored {except in cases of unwanted solication & harrassement}, so be fore WARNED!
For more information, http://raptorsdungeon.home.ml.org
 
 

Dswww [English] [For People Over 21]
A discussion list for people who build and maintain websites with D/s content, which are not pornographic. How do we distinguish ourselves from porn sites? Where can we find suitable graphics? Which ISPs understand our needs? This list is intended to allow us to discuss these and other matters, to share information and ideas, and to collectively promote the acceptance and understanding of D/s as a lifestyle. All those currently maintaining D/s websites, or those planning to do so, who are looking for ideas and advice, are welcome.
For more information, http://www.darkflame.com/dswww/
 

Dungeon [English] [For People Over 21]
Dungeon D/s... a place to share ideas and information about you private or public dungeon for Domination/submission play. Favorites as in furniture, homemade and commercial, vanilla conversions, racks, pillory's, spreader bars, etc. The really big adult toy heheheh fun things. for the dom's mostly but subbies can share their ideas too. BDSM or D/s, top or bottom, this is intended as a place to recommend play styles with dungeon furniture. Pros and cons, safe and unsafe dungeon practices, experiences, plans, etc.
For more information, mailto:lthrwrk@aol.com
 
 

Dungeonupdate [English] [For People Over 17] [announce]
The new home for the ^cat^ 's House and Dungeon Update List.These every-few-weeks-or-so announcements will let you know what's new at ^cat^'s place. This is intended for adults 18 or older and is BDSM specific.
For more information, http://www.prrcat.com
 
 

Epe [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted] EPE <epe@onelist.com> is an adult-oriented list for people interested in maledom/femsub erotic power exchange, managed and moderated by the International Maledom/femsub Guild (IMfG). Very well-defined posting guidelines together with a very active management style keep discussions well-focused on the topics while eliminating most one-liners, silly comments, off-topic posts, personal attacks and flamewars. If you're a mature and intelligent adult who is seriously interested in M/f EPE and who is tired of lists where the signal-to-noise ratios are unacceptable, then this may very well be the list you've been wishing you could find. To read the posting guidelines and list behaviour rules before deciding whether this list is for you, please go to http://www.bdsm.com/powerotics/list.htm
For more information, http://www.bdsm.com/powerotics/central.htm
 
 

Esclavas_baires [Spanish] [For People Over 21] [moderated] [restricted]
Esta lista es para los amantes del BDSM. Es para Hombres-Dom y mujeres-sub, de la Ciudad de Buenos Aires y alrededores. Aca podemos discutir, compartir, anunciar, buscar... en fin, todo lo que nos parezca que podemos hacer con la lista y que sea de utilidad para cada uno de nosotros. Anotense en la lista, promocionen la lista y disfruten de ella... y de ellas, las hermosas esclavas...
For more information, mailto:P_Mythos@yahoo.com
 
 

Eyesofpaingallery [English] [For People Over 21]
This listing is an information exchange regarding erotic art. We deal specifically in "serious, original digital, photographic and traditional artistic creations." We also deal primarily in imagery and writings regarding human power exchange/Ds/BDSM etc. The Eyes of Pain Gallery is an award winning on-line site located at http://www.munchltd.com/eyesofpain/ This list serves as a discussion point for The Galleries exhibited artist's and writer's works. It is also a general information exchange on site updates, specific themes, creative techniques and the overall subject of erotic art and writing. Due to potential content, all subscribers should be at least 21 years of age.
For more information, http://www.munchltd.com/eyesofpain
 
 

Femdomsup [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
A group for dominant women to discuss, share, chat, explore concepts, and be comfortable. To feel community and support. Female Tops /doms /switches and Women exploring roles welcome. Any of bdsm, BD, SM, d/s and fetish and related welcome. This list is for women only, all sexual orientations welcome. Its focus is slighlty antipodean, with Australian women forming a large part of the membership. All women are welcome.
For more information, http://www.cosmoco.com/ausbdsm/femdomsup.html
 
 

Femmedomme [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
Discuss the unique challenges and pleasures of the Female Dominant/Male Submissive in a loving BDSM relationship. All welcome to participate by sharing your experiences and learnings; a safe and educational forum to ask and answer questions for all aspects of exploring the safe, sane and consentual kinks nearest and dearest to our hearts.
 
 

Femsuprem [English] [For People Over 21] [moderated] [restricted]
This list addresses the power exchange between Female dominants and female/male submissives in which the female is considered superior. This is a biased opinion and not shared by all BDSM lifestylers or players. We are not apologetic for our beliefs, but if this distresses you please don't subscribe. Flames will not be tolerated. Respect yourselves and respect others. Males are our servants and consorts, but not doormats. BDSM, D/s, Lifestylers (24/7), Femsuprem, Domina and related personals are welcome on this list prefaced with a P: in the subject line. Information on the Femina Society is available: mainemistress@hotmail.com Be patient! I get a great deal of email each day.
For more information, mailto:mainemistress@hotmail.com
 

GingersSanctuary [English] [For People Over 17] [announce]
This list is to notify others of updates and changes in the web page ginger's Sanctuary of Philosophy. If you have any questions, please send email to ginger_g@ix.netcom.com. This web page covers many areas including poetrty, BDSM, perspectives as a submissive masochistic female, and different links to help others learn about the D/s lifestylre and other fun things...bookstore and mucis store.
For more information, http://pw1.netcom.com/~ginger_g/index.htm

Goreans [English] [For People Over 17]
Tal and greetings, This list is for all Goreans. Master's, Mistress', slaves, Warriors and more. It's for the discussion of all things Gor AND, the possible creation of a new GOREAN BOOK. If you're intersted in all things Gor, sub to the list, you'll have fun Be well

Havenmush [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
For the community of HavenMUSH to discuss issues relevant to the MUSH itself, and to the goings-on within. This ranges from technical topics to emotional issues involving online play, VR to RL cross-over, and general BDSM conversation. The rating of this list ranges from G to XXX and is intended only for those who are registered adults on HavenMUSH. This list can be used for discussion or broadcast. Use your best judgement.
For more information, mailto:hands@io.com
 
 

Imfg_news [English] [For People Over 17] [announce]
This newsletter is produced by the International Maledom/femsub Guild - IMfG - who's purpose is to promote quality information and entertainment on the Web regarding M/f erotic power exchange, aka "BDSM". Primary mailings will be sent out mid-month, with possible shorter announcements at other times. Contents include an article or essay on a power exchange related topic, information on upcoming events of note, as well as news and updates concerning IMfG websites.
For more information, http://www.bdsm.com/powerotics/central.htm
 
 

Indianabdsmrealtime [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
For anyone living in a 24/7 D/s lifestyle to talk,learn from each other and maybe start a group or club for play partys here in cow country
For more information, http://www.geocities.com/SouthBeach/Docks/6082/
 

Interracialbdsm [English] [For People Over 17]
This list is designed as a forum for Dominants and submissives to discuss the unique pleasures and challenges of BDSM interactions that crosses racial boundaries and/or touches upon issues unique to people of color in this life of ours. Tolerance, open-mindedness, and courtesy are required for membership. This is a pansexual list and all folks of open mind and open heart are welcome to join the discussion regardless of their race, sexual orientation, size, or D/s preferences. Flaming, posturing, and trolling will not be tolerated (if you wish to give some sense of who you are and what you want in a partner in your introduction to the list that is fine.)

Ircopbdsmwitches [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted
This is a private mailing list for the OPs of bdsmwitches IRC chat. Check out the mailing list bdsmwitches, here at ONELIST.com
For more information, http://www.prettyeffective.com/bdsmwitch.html
 
 

Jewishbdsm [English] [For People Over 21]
A discussion group for Jewish BDSM lovers and their friends. This is NOT a group for trolling. It is a place to learn and share ideas with others who share the same interests.
 
 

Katspdx [English] [For People Over 17] [moderated] [restricted]
KATS (Kidz & Adultz Together Sharing) is an *adult-only* ageplay group. This list is for discussion and local announcements. While this list is primarily for those interested in ageplay, it will also contain BDSM references and material. If this bothers you, do not subscribe. Inappropriate or offensive material will be deleted.
For more information, mailto: KATSpdx@aol.com
 
 

Kc_club [English] [For People Over 17] [restricted]
KC Club is a private, by invitation group for those interested in combining their BDSM/fetish lifestyle with swinging. The list is for the purpose of communications to and between KC Club and its members. The group is for those interested persons, preferably in the Iowa/Nebraska/Arkansas /Kansas/Missouri area age 18 and over. Explicit language is a possibility. No crusaders trying to put an end to individual freedoms on the grounds of morality are allowed.
For more information, mailto:kc_club@hotmail.com
 
 

Kindredsouls [English] [For People Over 17] [restricted]
From Olympia Wa.... A discussion group speaking openly & frankly about BDSM and how it affects *your* life.. Poems, Stories, Thoughts. A place to meet people of like minds in our aria.. Maybe that special someone.. You never know.. You must be at least 18 to join this list as some of the topics may become graphic..By joining you are signing an agreement that you are at least 18 years of age... List rules will be given out upon acceptance.. *smile* Hope to see you here, Blessings & Peace Kindred
 
 

K_goddess [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
Kundalini awakening thru Modern Primitives rituals, Tantra, Guru/chela as a D&S relationship, BDSM shamanism, SM as Sex Magick. Openminded, spiritually oriented, Adults only. For a fuller explanation of this list topic, go to http://www.domin8rex.com/serpent/k_goddess.htm

Lakajira [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
a mailing list for discussions among Gorean kajirae...topics to include serving your Master or Mistress...nurturing your slave belly...life as a slave...please, this list is for kajirae only...it is a place for girls to feel safe in sharing their feelings and their hearts...

Latches-ldr [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
A discussion mail list for people in a BDSM LDR relationship

Latches-mentor [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
This is a mail list for female submissives who are new to BDSM and wish to explore their thoughts, feelings and motivations for pursuing this lifestyle. Although it is always up to the individual to make the decision to continue, we hope this list will provide solid information with which to help you in your journey. This is list for submissive women who are actively pursuing the end goal of or just starting out in REAL TIME. If you are already a member of LATCHES, this is not a list for you to join unless you have been chosen as a mentor participant. Contact vaash@hotmail.com if you have any questions.

Latches-newbies [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
A discussion mail list for submissive women new to the BDSM lifestyle.
For more information, http://latches.webslaves.com
 
 

Latches-tpe [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
This a LATCHES list devoted to those submissives who are in Total Power Exchange (TPE) or Erotic Power Exchange (EPE) relationships or wish to learn more about this wonderful BDSM lifestyle. If you want to be part of this list please send in a request to LATCHES-TPE@webslaves.com and a description of your relationship and why you think being a part of this list would be of benefit to you. We look forward to hearing from you!
For more information, http://latches.webslaves.com
 
 

Leatherparent [English] [For People Over 17] [moderated] [restricted]
A supportive forum for parents who live the BDSM lifestyle. Parenting and lifestyle issues discussed in a flame-free environment.
For more information, http://www.cabo-one.com/lalaura

Lifestyles [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
A BDSM D/S LIFESTYLE discussion mail list.

Live-in [English] [For People Over 21] Similar lists
A discussion and exchange forum for people in the d/s community who seek a fulltime live-in (24/7) arrangement.
 
 

Longislandbdsm [English] [For People Over 21]
This is a list for people on Long Island to discuss domination and submission, place personals for others on Long Island into bdsm, and plan get togethers.
 
 

Lordadama_angel [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted] [announce]
The initial purpose of this list is to let people know of updates and any other announcement revelant to our website. If you have an event you would like announced to our list members, email us, and we'll pass it along, pending its appropriateness. If there is enough interest in the long run, a mailing list to keep in touch and discuss issues of interest and related to D/s and BDSM. If you're interested in either, please register. <smile>
For more information, http://www.geocities.com/SouthBeach/Breakers/3207

Maledom_femsub [English] [For People Over 21] [moderated]
This is a list heterosexual male dominants and heterosexual female submissives to disuss the alternative lifestyle of Domination and submission. A place for moderated discussion of D/s relationships, and meaning. Of some significance is that I want this to be about real people.. real daily problems and joys about D/s. THIS IS NOT for fantasy; wannabe's will not be well tolerated..but if your sincere about learning, then that is OK. This is not a place for homosexuals, gothic, gorean or other themes. Just like some lists are for sewing.. which is not everyone.. or guns.. this list is not for everyone. or planes.. this list is not for everyone.. That is why am creating this list. This is not a democracy! but not quite a dictatorship either. Open debate is encouraged, flaming well depends.. attack the idea.. when you call someone stupid .. maybe the idea is stupid but not the individual. Outright personal attacks wont be tolerated though. I get it do you???
For more information, mailto:lthrwrk@aol.com
 

Maia [English] [For People Over 17]
What's new at maia's little corner (http://www.southernleather.com/maia). This list will notify you when the site is changed or updated, as well as serve as a general BDSM discussion/sharing list.
For more information, http://www.southernleather.com/maia
 
 

Mainebdsm [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
A place where Maine BDSMers can get together and learn from one another.
 
 

Masters-and-slaves [English] [For People Over 17] [moderated] [restricted]
ADULTS ONLY! You MUST be 18 years of age or older to join this list!!! This list is intended for Gays AND Lesbians in the Leather and BDSM community who are seeking 24/7 Master (Mistress)/slave situations. Messages are moderated and should be Personals Ads stating whether you are a Master (Mistress) or slave and what you are seeking. You should include the area you live in and if you are seeking to relocate, what you are into and what your limits are, etc. No other types of messages will be permitted. Questionable messages will be verified by the list owner. Memberships MUST be approved.
For more information, mailto:timelord@infinet.com
 
 

Masters-and-slaves-d [English] [For People Over 17] [moderated] [restricted]
A discussion group designed as a supplement to the Masters and slaves personals group. This list is intended SOLEY for members of the Gay and Lesbian BDSM/Leather Community who are in or desire to be in a Master/Mistress / slave relationship.
For more information, mailto:timelord@infinet.com

Masterslavedating [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
This is a list to help Masters, Mistresses and slaves to meet one another. It is a place were people can talk freely. You can either keep the relationships on the list or look for those who might want to share this offline.
For more information, http://members.xoom.com/ctknight/ or XenaLarl@aol.com

Mstr-slv-all [English] [For People Over 21] [moderated] [restricted]
This group is for persons of LEGAL AGE ONLY! The original Masters and slaves personals list created at CoolList was intended for all sexual orientations. This is the replacement list for that group. For a Gay and Lesbian SPECIFIC Masters and slaves personals group, check out Masters-and-slaves@oneList.com!
For more information, mailto:timelord@infinet.com
 
 

Mstr-slv-all-d [English] [For People Over 17] [moderated] [restricted]
THIS GROUP IS FOR PERSONS OF LEGAL AGE ONLY! This is a DISCUSSION group and a counterpart of the Pan-sexual Masters and slaves Personals list. This group is for the discussion of Consensual Adult Master/slave relationships and related topics ONLY! The discussions may include ANY topic from ANY sexual orientation!
For more information, mailto:timelord@infinet.com

Mature_dom_sub [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
Many people discover at a mature age that they are sexually Dominant or submissive and have to cope with the fact that BDSM is part of their nature. Many have 'vanilla' spouses or significant others, and this list is designed to help these people share thoughts of the adjustments and changes in their lives. Also of interest will be the point of view of the mature person in a world which so often seems to belong to those in their 20s and 30s. All (ADULT) ages may join the list, but its intent is to adress those in their 40s, 50s, and above.
 

Mdomfsub [English] [For People Over 21]
New list for the purpose of free discussion in bondage, discipline, and sadomasochism (BDSM). This is an uncensored forum and each member to express whatever they wish in the manner they wish to discuss it.
 
 

Mid_south_bdsm [English] [For People Over 21]
The BDSM E-mail group exists to serve the fetish community living in the Mid South area. Our functions include discussion of issues, notification of social events, introductions and referrals to others, and general good times. It is not a place for pickups, trolling or obnoxious behavior. Our levels of experience range from novices who are just learning, to Lifestyle Masters and Mistresses. All are welcome .
For more information, http://www.geocities.com/HotSprings/8372/

Mfl [English] [Safe for Kids] Similar lists
Subscribe to the MFL mail list today! Receive weekly stat updates via email and read/send messages to other MFL team owners and family members!
For more information, http://www.brigadoon.com/~kwest

Moonvine [English] [For People Over 21] [moderated] [restricted]
A list for occasional updates regarding Moonvine's BBW BDSM Website.
For more information, http://members.tripod.com/~Moonvine/BDSM.html
 
 

Multiples [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
Statement of Purpose: This list is here for the sole purpose of discussing Dominants with Multiple submissive/slaves. It includes discussion on Poly issues, and issues where the relationship is of a more fixed nature.. Poly is normally defined as having several love partners and interacting with all of them on an individual basis, but not together. Fixed nature is One Dominant, <male or female> who has 2 or more subs, under the same roof, or intentions of same, and they do not see people outside of that group. Both Male and Female Dominants are welcome in this forum. I want each to feel comfortable discussing all of BDSM related issues as they relate to the poly/fixed forum.. In order to gain entry you must be in one of the above type relationships. please indicate which on your request for membership. I hope that we can create a lively forum, with lots of passionate debate, and respect for all parties involved. Thank you for considering Multiples as a potential list for
For more information, mailto:cia@bdsm.net

Multiplesubs [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
This list is solely for WOMEN who are involved in a multiple sub/slave situation. **PLEASE do NOT request entrance on this list UNLESS you are FEMALE. i do not want to deny lots of folks. thank you.. You either have one Master, and several subs/slaves in the home, or you are involved in a poly relationship(s). We are NOT accepting Dominants in the list. We are hoping that there are issues involved w/these types of relationships that women would love to talk about outside of the scope of their respective Dominants.. Not with disrespect, but with understanding, and hope from folks involved in same.. Both Dominant and submissive parties are welcome on the Multiples list that has been created. go to: www.onelist.com/subscribe.cgi/multiples to subscribe to that list.. Right now, the subscription is restricted. No moderation of list material is done, unless it becomes necessary.. but entrance to this list is on a restricted basis, so as to hopefully only admit subs/slaves in a two or more household
For more information, mailto:cia@bdsm.net
 

Nedbdsm [Dutch] [For People Over 17] [restricted]
Deze mailinglist werd gestart om over alle aspecten van BDSM, SM, enz. te kunnen discussieren. Het is een Nederlandstalige mailinglist gericht op Nederland en Belgie. [Alle belgen mogen subscriben natuurlijk, maar de taal op de list is wel Nederlands!] Niet nederlandstalige mensen die om een of andere reden een band hebben met Belgie of Nederland (er wonen, een relatie, enzo) zijn ook welkom, en mogen mails in het engels sturen.

Newbies-bdsm [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
A discussion mail list for people new tBDSM lifestyle.
 
 

Niagara_munch [English] [For People Over 17] [restricted]
Discussion of the Niagara Falls BDSM munch.

Nlaco [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
Mailing list of the National Leather Association Columbus Chapter. Must live in Ohio, West Virginia, Kentucky, Indiana, or Pennsylvania to subscribe. Information and discussion on the leather/bdsm community in Columbus and the state of Ohio. Members and non-members welcome.
For more information, http://www.uniquelynx.com/nla/columbus
 
 

Nzbdsm [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
An email forum to promote discussion of the D/s and BDSM lifestyle and to encourage growth in the New Zealand BDSM Community.
For more information, http://www.thenet.co.nz/powerex

Painfulpleasures [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted] [announce] Similar lists
PAINFUL PLEASURES is a monthly electronic magazine for ADULTS interested in the D/s lifestyle! PAINFUL PLEASURES features FREE personal ads / unique web pages of interest / a very private chat room for subscribers only/ training lessons for newbie Dominants and submissives of either gender/ sexy and erotic writings and stories/ "toys" used in the lifestyle {along with where to get them at a discount}...plus many, many more features! The erotic writings and pictures will spark your imagination and your interest...and while you're at it, go ahead and place a FREE personal ad to meet the Dominant or submissive person of your erotic dreams! You get access to FREE software of interest, teachings on how best to enjoy the D/s lifestyle and hard to find information that you may never find on your own! Written and published by a real life couple living the D/s lifestyle! You won't believe what awaits you in this captivating E-Zine! Painful Pleasures is published on a VERY secret location on the internet an
For more information, http://members.tripod.com/~Florida_2/pain.html

Pandomonium [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
Pansexual BDSM discussion list. All welcome, whether you're straight, gay, lesbian or bi. We believe we can all learn from each other, and that there is no need to fragment what is already a marginalised section of society. Although this list is run in conjunction with the Savage UK website, people from anywhere in the world are welcome to join. All we ask is that you be over 21, and come with an open mind.
For more information, http://www.darkflame.com/savageuk/savage.htm
 
 

Polybdsm [English] [For People Over 17] [restricted]
A discussion list that covers all aspects on the intersection between polyamoury (in all it's forms, also triads) and BDSM.
 
 

Rapefantasies [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
This is a mailinglist setup for the discussion of rape *fantasies*. Posting stories is allowed... discussions about fantasies and possible acting them out within a CONSENSUAL bdsm context are encouraged. This list is _not_ about rape.. and don't ask what it is about. If you don't know the difference between rape and "rape fantasies", then you obviously don't belong on this list... as noone will ever manage to explain it to you.

Rocknrolldungeon [English] [For People Over 21] [moderated]
The Rock N' Roll Dungeon is a small dungeon facility in SE Michigan, we provide an exciting atmosphere for those seeking a safe and stimulating environment for their BDSM sessions. The facility contains a wall-mounted St. Andrews Cross and a reinforced ceiling mounted suspended cross with sling. Additionally, we have a variety of props to assist with your scenes. Couples and singles may reserve time in one hour increments to explore their own B&D needs. We also have Masters and Mistresses associated with the facility who can help you to fullfill your fantasies at an additional fee. Please visit the website (a free site) to see pictures of the facility and read a description of it's offerings. The Rock N' Roll Dungeon website is also a place to post your personals. We will be adding to this site regularly and will also be offering specials and incentives through the website for the dungeon facility. Belonging to this list will allow you to receive updates concerning both the website and facility as they are made available. This list may also be utilized for discussion of general BDSM topics.
For more information, http://209.115.83.50
 
 

Samway [English] [For People Over 21] [moderated]
Many Scene people (including me) believe that BDSM can be practiced as a path of spiritual development--rather like Yoga or Zen or the martial arts. I would call our thing "S&MWay" (pronounced "SAMWAY")when it is practiced in this spirit. The purpose of this subscription list, and of its corresponding website is to provide a forum for discussion of the "theology" and systematic practice of BDSM's therapeutic, spiritual, "sacred" dimensions. SAMWAY is an unrestricted, moderated subscription list--with an archive, so that members can review the conversation at any time. The moderator (Richard/sasha; wombat@travel-net.com) will not control either the list's subscribers or the opinions expressed. He will attempt to maintain a high standard of courtesy and seriousness, however.
For more information, http://www.geocities.com/Athens/Agora/2044/index.htm
 
 

Savageuk [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
BDSM discussion list for members of Savage UK, a UK based social group for those interested in power exchange relationships. Please visit the website for details of how to join. Membership is free, but necessary before you can subscribe to this list. Over 18s only, please.
For more information, http://www.darkflame.com/savageuk/savage.htm

Slave-master [English] [For People Over 17]
Are you an expert on S&M? Or are you just curious? This is a list to share and explore different aspects of S&M. To explore how S&M plays into our lives, to learn, to teach... No SPAM, no rude posts.

Slave_heat [English] [For People Over 17]
For writers and readers of erotica & D/s - fiction, poetry, articles, essays, opinion rants, Doms, subs, Switches, nilla, slaves, Gorean, tv's, ts's. I wanted a place where we can chat about the intricacies of D/s Lifestyle, D/s writing, what a writer faces, how that compounds with other aspects of your life, who we are as writers in erotica, the business of writing and genre writing, how websites like Slave Heat allow us to express our desires and explore our often hidden needs, and how we learn so much from these sites. .
For more information, http://www.slaveheat.com
 
 

Smbottoms [English] [For People Over 21]
This mailing list is for those who define themselves as bottoms, boys (either male or female), slaves or submissives and those who are interested in being one, to gather in a safe environment (read no tops) to discuss concerns, feelings, and issues that are important to them. Tops are not welcome on this list. This is a pansexual list. All bottoms, boys, slaves and submissives are welcome who would like to join the list whose focus is on bottoming, or being submissive in an SM relationship. This includes switches, but please focus on the submissive side.
For more information, http://www.norloff.com/nightwinds/boys

Sm-hamburg [German] [For People Over 21]
Offene Mailingliste f r BDSMler in und um Hamburg
For more information, http://www.sm-hamburg.com
 
 

Smarties [German] [For People Over 17] [restricted] [announce]
Workshop- und Seminartermine der Hamburger BDSM-Initiative 'smARTi.e.s.' F r Fragen bitte mailto:bjoern@amt.comlink.de benutzen.
For more information, http://www.sm-hamburg.com/smarties/
 
 

Southeast_bdsm [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
Mailing list to keep the pansexual (gay, bi, straight, transgendered) leather community informed of events and activites in the Southeast area. A place for S/m organizations in the Southeast to announce events and activites and a resource center for information on S/m, D/s and B&D in the Southeast. Cities represented on this mailing list include but are not limited to: Atlanta, Augusta, Biloxi/Gulfport, Birmingham, Charleston, Charlotte, Chattanooga, Columbus/Phenix City, Greenville, Jackson, Jacksonville, Knoxville, Macon, Memphis, Mobile, Nashville, New Orleans, Panama City, Pensacola, Savannah, Tallahasee, Tampa/St Pete and points in between. A chance for the Southeast Leather Community to be informed in whats going on, and chance for all to get together from time and time.

Southernbdsm [English] [For People Over 21]
Southern style BDSM - Personals and general BDSM chat for southerners and southern wannabes. ;)
For more information, http://www.southernleather.com/maia

Spankings_winnipeg [English] [For People Over 21] [moderated]
This list is for people in the Winnipeg Manitoba area who are fans of spanking. This can be used to send personals, make e-mail contacts or send out information related to spanking in general or relating to the spanking/bdsm community in Winnipeg. YOU MUST BE 18 TO USE THIS LIST.

Steelfet [English] [For People Over 21]
This list is for all those over the age of 21 who share a common interest in the finer aspects of bDsm in general, however You/you may define it! This is the mailing list for the Steeltown (Hamilton Ontario Canada) Fetish Society, a group that regularly holds munches, discussion groups and sometimes play parties, when good play space is available. Please share your thoughts ideas, and questions. As an "offshoot"of the EhBC group, you are encourage to check out their wonderful site at EhBC@golden.net.com

Submission [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
A discussion mail list for submissives.

Submissionz [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
Adjunct to the ICQ chat room. For interchange between REAL TIME Male Doms and fem subs. Be factual, pertinent and polite and we'll all do just fine. NO FLAMING or the like will be tolerated. That's a sure ticket for being ousted. Message content can vary as long as it pertains to REAL TIME issues.... this is NOT a list for those participating solely in cyber or phone.
For more information, http://soiuser.hyperchat.com/taysha/index.htm
 

Sub-singles [English] [For People Over 21] [moderated] [restricted]
BDSM discussion list for submissves that are single.
 
 

Subtracking [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
subTracking is the LATCHES mail list for members dealing with food and body image issues. LATCHES is a support group for women in a real life BDSM relationship.
 
 

Switcherx [English] [For People Over 17]
This list was designed for those in the BDSM lifestyle, who can/like to switch roles. This is an anything goes list, so if you are easily offended by adult content, this list is NOT for you.
 
 

Thedarksideofpain [English] [For People Over 17]
This is a list pertaining to the serious practice of BDSM in all of it's forms. The rules are very simple; act honorably. What is honor? View this site: http://www.ufsr-ulc.org/SLAVE/index.html If you act contrary to what is honorable, you will be swiftly removed from the list. Above all, respect another's views no matter what they may be. Matters of "face" may be dealt with openly on this list as well without getting you removed. What is "face?" Glad you asked. view this site. http://www.ufsr-ulc.org/SLAVE/index.html Finally: Remember, there is no dishonor in requireing your government to obey the law under which it opperates.
For more information, http://www.ufsr-ulc.org/SLAVE/index.html
 
 

Therosegarden [English] [For People Over 21] [moderated] [restricted]
The Rose Garden is an BDSM lifestyle information center for the tri-state area of Southern California, Western Arizona, and Southern Nevada. All people who have a real interest in the BDSM lifestyle across the United States and across the world are encouraged to subscribe, not just those living in the tri-state area, as we will be discussing the various aspects, elements, and facets of our chosen lifestyle.
For more information, http://home.earthlink.net/~redstorm69
 
 

Thisgroup [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
A forum for people interested in BDSM in the Ottawa, Ontario area. By subscribing to this list, you confirm that you are at least eighteen years of age.

Tiemeuptiemedown [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted] [announce]
TieMeUpTieMeDown is a Toronto Based group for those interested in the D/s BDSM lifestyle.

Tpe_northwest [English] [For People Over 21]
this list is the NorthWest Connection of the D/s Power Exchange List. It is for those with D/s, BDSM and TPE interest living in {or planning to move to} the Northwestern United States, so that they may get aquainted and get to know each other. you are free to discuss your interest, ideas, and experiences... list your Bio/Profile, place a Personal Ad and any Websites of interest {including your own}. This list is an unrestricted free forum... but intolerance of others, cyber stalking and flaming will not be tolerated... the list is for meeting, sharing, and learning not "fighting" with fellow members. That being said if this is what you are looking for then Welcome.
For more information, http://members.tripod.com/~dspe_members/links.html
 
 

Tulsabdsm [English] [For People Over 21] [restricted]
This list was created to help facilitate communication and partcipation in the D&S/S&M community in Tulsa, Oklahoma and the surrounding areas. We welcome everyone 21 and older who has a sincere interest in D&S/S&M and the leather community in this part of the state and country. We encourage everyone with affiliations to local leather organizations to join the list, meet some people, and have some fun! This list is not affiliated with any one organization but rather hopes everyone within the community will be able to participate.
 
 

Uniforms-for-us [English] [For People Over 17]
This list is designed for male and female, stright, bi or gay, who have a uniform fetish, incorporate uniforms into BDSM play, or just plain like a man or woman who's dressed in a uniform. Be the uniform law enforcement, military, fire, paramedic, whatever. If you wear a uniform, i also encourage you to join our little list. This is an "anything goes" list, so if you are easily offended by language, pics, or anything else of an adult nature, this list is NOT for you.