The birth of Just C.A.W.S.
by Wendy Burt
I'd pondered the idea of starting a women's creative group for some time.
Although I was active in a writers group, I was often finding that
writers weren't the only creators that were in need of camaraderie. There
seemed to be a pattern among the women I was meeting: Web designers who felt
stifled in a male-dominated business world; business consultants who were
scared to walk in to networking meetings by themselves; artists who spent
much of their time alone and with little outreach to other artists; fabric
designers who knew know one else with similar interests. You get the idea.
The concept was simple: bring together creative women in a free, open
forum twice per month. I discussed the idea with a friend and we brainstormed
on details. Here's what we came up with:
1. To avoid any form of "dictatorship," the group would rotate leaders.
2. Each meeting would also offer a creative exercise, lead by one of the
women, that would cross the boundaries of creativity; setting goals, breaking
down creative barriers, personality tests, free writing - anything that would
support creativity.
3. The remaining time would be spent "checking in" - basically, talking
about our creative accomplishment, blocks, and current needs. It was only
natural that networking followed.
We decided that the group would be called Just CAWS (Creative Alliance of
Women's Support), as the acronym also represented the four things we hoped to get from the group: Creativity, Accountability, Work leads, and Support.
We held the first meeting in November of 1999 in a local restaurant. It
was less than spectacular. When we arrived, our room was being used, despite two calls to ensure its availability. A group of about 17 waited in the lobby for nearly 20 minutes until tables were pushed together to form a long
rectangle - right in front of the open kitchen. Hardly conducive to
conversation.
We spent most of the evening introducing ourselves (over the clamming of
pots and pans) and discussing what we wanted to get out of the group. At the
end of the two hours, we bid goodbye and headed our separate ways.
I expected that the meeting would be our last.
We held the second meeting in a private room in a coffee shop. The room
was full. Although not all of the women from the first meeting returned, word
had spread. This meeting was much better.
I had created an "accountability sheet" - a one-page checklist of 10
items that the women could fill in according to their creative needs. The
very first line read, "I am a ___________." The idea was to fill in the blank
with the appropriate word - writer, artist, painter, etc. - in hopes of
claiming our creativity and putting an end to the often-uttered, "I wanna be
a ________."
The plan worked. The accountability sheet went on to ask specific trigger
questions and set goals for each woman's individual needs:
"I spend too much time __________."
"I wish I had more time to ____________."
"This week I will sit down to _____________."
By the next meeting, many of the women were able to not only set creative
goals, but actually complete them.
By sheer word of mouth, our group had grown to more than 25 from the
first meeting and within a few months we had outgrown our space at the coffee
shop.
We managed to get a larger private room at Barnes and Noble, who even
allowed us to bring our own coffee pot and pastries, which was important to
me, as I knew that many of the women would not be able to afford the $4
lattes or $3 biscotti.
They listed us in the bookstore's monthly newsletter and with our own
regular newsletters and word-of-mouth invitations to other creative women,
the group grew to more than 120 members in just more than a year.
Today, Just CAWS continues to meet two Sunday per month for two hours. We
have a different creative exercise at every meeting, and average around 20
women each Sunday. We welcome a new member at almost every meeting and there are still no dues or fees of any type.
We have shared in each other's joys, sorrows, successes, and searches for
creative expression. The networking has found women jobs, opportunities,
financial assistance, mentors, partnerships, and friendships, and most
importantly, it's created a safe place to bring women of all creative
interests together for the purpose of empowerment and support.
Most of us leave the meetings feeling loved, supported, and energized and
I'm sure I can speak for many of the members when I say that missing a
meeting leaves you feeling a creative void for the next two weeks. It's
become a very important part of my life.